Many people believe in fate but is there more to love than this? It could be that using affirmations are the key to finding the right person for you. Whether that is the same as fate is anyone’s guess. But, believing that you will find love and thinking about the right language that gets you there will go a long way.
It is often said that when you throw in the towel with respect to finding someone is usually when something happens. There are numerous cases when people state they have given up and shortly after that; they find someone. Maybe there is something true about this. However, it could be that the affirmations they were using all along are simply paying off for them.
Even after you have found someone and are in a committed relationship, affirmations can help you with that relationship. Suppose you find yourself frequently fighting with your loved one. Fights are often the result of negative thoughts about the other person. By concentrating on positive aspects of each other, you will find the negative ones are no longer important. There are certainly issues that can persist and may need some special handling. But, staying positive can help with this as well.
It should be noted that no amount of affirmations will help a relationship that isn’t meant to happen. Sometimes, a relationship can start out great but over time, both parties feel they are not compatible with the other. Or, one partner may be more committed than the other. When this happens, it’s probably best to move on and find someone else.
Maybe you have experienced the situation where someone special came into your life after you giving up your quest for love. Try to think about the days or weeks before that happened. What thoughts did you possess during that time? Maybe you were thinking about what qualities you would like in a future mate. Did you tell yourself you like someone who is tall or someone who is successful? Or, was the conversation in your head about a person who is down-to-earth? These are all aspects that you may have been focusing on during that time, and even though you eventually give up, the Universe delivered for you. It’s likely that you were using affirmations without even knowing that you were. Give it a try. You just may find the right person by simply thinking about them.